Barron Trump Bullied! How Real Bullies Think!

Barron Trump Bullied!  How REAL Bullies Think!

By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

Of interest, is another perspective of Barron's bullying incident, published by the Business Insider, Titled, "Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"

The content in the partially quoted article below, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think, reason and talk.

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Read partially quoted article below in purple print, or click on the link, Business Insider underlined below for for full content.

"Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"
Business Insider-link to original, full content  Business Insider

Barron is semi-frequently photographed walking across the White House's South Lawn with his family as they return from trips around the country. He's usually seen in a shirt from J. Crew's kid's line, and he has even been pictured with a fidget spinner and a backpack!

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid. Chelsea Clinton, who was only a few years older than Barron when her father, Bill Clinton, was president, tweeted in support of the youngest Trump
Still, it's hard to believe, considering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One. It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events


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(Continued) Discussion in the partially quoted article above, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think and reason.

Did anyone notice while reading the article, how differently minded the author seemed?

If you didn't, don't worry. There's a little bit more to learn, about adults, who are correctly referred to as "bullies", before it all comes together.

Starting with the basics, adults who are correctly referred to as a "bully", are people with a "level of psychopathy".  These are people who lack or have a diminished ability to feel empathy for other people.  Instead, they feel a type of satisfaction over the misfortune of others.  This is what I mean by "REAL bully".  By "level of psychopathy" I'm referring to a spectrum of severity, in which psychopathy is experienced.  The worst, totally lacking caring emotions.

One of the strangest things about REAL bullies, especially the intelligent "successful psychopaths", is that normal, caring people, rarely notice when the things they say or write, (like this article), reveals a very different slant on things.

Successful psychopaths are smart enough to know that they think differently than others. Some of them view the emotion of others as a weakness and their own lack of caring feelings as an advantage.  

Others, view this difference as something horrible about themselves, as well they should. Whether it be a logical belief of Christian morality or the man made letter of the law, most stay on the right side of both, seemingly normal in every way.

The vast majority in my opinion, may be low on the psychopathy spectrum, or are deeply influenced in some other ways, and are never really thought of as "psychopathic", neither by themselves', or by others. Most overcome that impression, by a steadfastness and adherence to socially acceptable and beneficial behaviors and activities within their communities.  These are  the Moms and Dads who work full time jobs, then run P.T.A. meetings or are sports coaches or scout leaders.  Many earn the coveted impression of being pillars of society. When it is all said and done, the original depth of one's benevolence, really doesn't matter.

Unable to fully experience caring emotions and passions of their own, Real bullies carefully orchestrate their lives, some in great detail. They mimic the normal emotions of others and portray an image of their choosing.

Things like their clothes are thought of as being so much more than just something to wear. They view their clothes, makeup, accessories and most of their belongings, as props in a play. All of these things are needed, but are not used in ways that most people expect. Most everything instead is used to support the lie of their artificial persona.

Normally minded people regard their clothes, appearance and material possessions in a more practical way. Having a real persona, born of genuine affections and moral convictions, things like clothes and appearance, are put in their proper perspective.

Most of us, like the President and his family, think of their clothes,.. well,... as their clothes. Adults in our society do better, when they go along with various mores about level of formality and to a lesser degree, morality. Children, whether presidential or not, do better in this society, and therefore are driven to wear, what every other kid wears.

Now back to the article;


The article starts with a description of Barron's casual attire. The author then starts the next paragraph with a statement;

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid.

The article continues suggesting that by Chelsea Clinton's support of Barron, that she too dressed as a kid being a kid, when her father was president. The author's statement reveals that the author, isn't one of the "most" who believe it. The author, being so differently minded restates their disbelief,  "Still, it's hard to believe" unable to grasp that Chelsea Clinton or anyone for that matter, dresses casually just because they want to, or they are just kids, being kids.

Then, like Real bullies everywhere, they flipped everything around in the most ridiculous way! Instead of believing the obvious, that Barron is a normal, everyday kid who dresses like one, this is what is thought instead-

Considering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One.  It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

UNBELIEVABLE! - And MOST people didn't think twice!

The author then gives a great example of the complicated way that Real bullies think about things like their clothes below-

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The article is then finished off, by projecting this whole messy clothes thing on the ,,,,,

 ...Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events.  

Nothing says it like their own words, if we just take a moment and listen, or read it twice! 


God Bless Targets of Workplace and Adult Bullying and Mobbing, Where Ever They Are! 

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

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