Kim Jong Un or President Donald Trump, Who's The REAL Bully?

Kim Jong Un or President Donald Trump, Who's The REAL Bully? By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

WE have two leaders in conflict which may lead to war.   Both have been described as a "bully". So who's the REAL bully? 

I 'll  start off by describing what I mean by a "REAL bully".  When adults are described as being a "bully" it is very different than children described with the term "bully".

MOST children who use behavior described as "bullying" are simply immature and outgrow bullying behaviors. There are the few exceptions however who don't out grow bullying. When children continue bullying behaviors into their late teens and beyond, it becomes more concerning, especially if the severity of their bullying tactics worsen. 

When they do, it is likely that the child, now young adult is a "REAL bully".  The word "bully" was first used to describe behavior problems of adults, by  the "workplace anti-bullying and mobbing" movement, in the United Kingdom. Both Canada and Australia followed suit, adopting the same terminology in their workplace anti-bullying and mobbing movements. All three countries, recognizing "workplace bullying" well before the United States.

Adults correctly referred to as  "bullies" have a level of psychopathy.  Meaning, they are lacking or have a diminished ability to experience empathy.  Instead, they actually experience a strange type of pleasure or satisfaction over the misfortune of others, which they often cause.

Most bullies involved in workplace bullying are also very Intelligent, and are commonly referred to as "successful psychopaths" in the United States.  They are "successful" in that their intelligence makes it possible for them to mimic the normal caring emotions of others, that they are incapable of experiencing.  Contrary to popular belief, intelligent psychopathic bullies, are not mentally ill in the usual sense of the word.  They are rooted in reality and know the difference between right and wrong.  Most have no feelings of guilt or anxiety.  The most dangerous psychopathic bullies, seem more mentally stable than most of us, despite thinking and being motivated VERY differently, and in ways that most people could not even imagine.

So who's the REAL bully, President Trump or Supreme Leader of North Korea, Kim Jong Un?

I think it's fair to say that both leaders are very intelligent. Based on that alone, it's possible that both men are REAL bullies, both intelligent enough to mimic normal caring emotions. 

Other ways to determine who the REAL bullies are, is by their relationships especially with family members and the severity and motivation for the bullying tactics they use.  Having a reliable source of information to answer these questions is a bonus.

Luckily, we live in the age of the Internet, where all the details of famous people's lives are revealed. True details are usually first published by reliable sources, then repeated many times more by many other sources.
 
We also know already that normal caring but angry adults, use tactics similar to tactics used by children called bullies. They use tactics "to call out" or to "stand up" against their adversaries as a show of strength.  They may raise their voice, make insulting comments or call them names. Bottom line, normally angry adults use tactics that cause little if any REAL harm.

This is what we know about Kim Jong Un's reported  relationships and past behavior towards other people;

Although it has been reported that Kim Jong Un has has a wife and three children, there are no details publihed.  Skipping to his other relatives, the most recent incident involves the death of Kim Jong Un's half brother Kim Jong Nam in February 2017.  Kim Jong Un's half brother was attacked by two women at an airport, where they quickly ran over and smeared a nerve toxin onto Kim Jong Nam's face.  He was dead within 20 minutes after describing excruciating pain moments before.

It was widely reported that the assassination was meticulously orchestrated by the North Korean government  and  that Kim Jong-Un wanted the killing to be so ‘gruesome’ that it would ‘horrify the rest of the world’ and intimidate his adversaries.

Another example of how Kim interacts with family members is the case of Jang Song-thaek who was thought of as a father figure to Kim Jong Un, and served as the second-in-command to the supreme leader. But when he ran afoul of Kim in 2013 for "anti-state acts" and "double-dealing," his familial ties couldn't save him from his nephew's wrath.

Many different articles describe thousands of gruesome public assassination, the worst "pulverized their bodies using anti-aircraft guns".   Other assassinations were carried out by hungry dogs who ate them.

Public executions and enforced disappearance to political prison camps serve as the ultimate means to terrorize the population into submission.

Michael Malice, author of "Dear Reader: The Unauthorized Autobiography of Kim Jong Il," said Kim's real favored means of murder is simply presiding over what Malice calls "the worst country on earth."

Conclusion:  Kim Jong Un is a REAL bully.  His  motivation  towards adversaries  is clear if not deadly. Known to not only assassinate for petty reasons, but to assassinate gruesomely, even his own family members.

What about President Trump, isn't it possible that they are both REAL bullies?

This is what we know about President's Trump's reported  relationships and past reported behavior towards other people.  Privacy matters keeps us from the minute details, but there is so much reported information, there's more than enough to go on.

President Trump seems happily married to his wife Melania who lives at the White House together with their young son Barron.

We know that the President has two x-wife's,  and  two adult sons, Donald Jr. and Eric.  He has a daughter, Ivanka with first wife Ivana,  a college-age daughter, Tiffany with second wife Marla Maples.

We know that all of the President's adult children, at least appear to have a good relationship with him.  Not knowing every thing of course, I think it's safe to say that most, if not all of his adult children actually work with the President or in charge of the President's former businesses. 

Have you EVER heard of anyone else who could boast that they too got along with their family as well as Trump?

Moving on to the hard part for REAL bullies, that being their "tactics" or behavior and the  motivation behind them.

This is where the "Trump is a bully" thing just falls apart completely!  Despite reading over and over again that Trump "rants and raves", I could never find video supporting that description. What I have seen is the President speaking with conviction about things that he is either passionate about or angry about.  At the very worst, I've seen him use a stern tone of voice with an angry expression. Considering the amount of  hatefulness against him, it's amazing how controlled he is.

 I'm thinking that maybe the people using those terms to describe the President, really don't know what "ranting and raving" really is.  Most, probably not even born or too young to remember President Nixon, the president who actually framed in my mind (and everyone else over 60) what REAL presidential "ranting and raving"  really looks like..

 Like many people my age, memories from my youth are much clearer than what I had for breakfast.  My memory of  President Nixon is one of those. With just his face and upper shoulders filling the TV screen,  I clearly remember Nixon sweating and red faced, his jowls actually shaking with every word that he spoke. Sounding like a lunatic he screamed  "I am NOT a crook!"  Happening well before the Internet, I  couldn't find any video. 

Then of course, there is the king of "ranting and raving", likely the most famous and the first ever captured on motion pictures for all perpetuity, Adolph Hitler. 

President Trump has been accused of just about every negative attribute that I can think of.  From bully to racist the list never ends.  Keeping up with the details of the news, I have yet to find validity for what the headlines imply.

I realize that general impressions based on things I've previously read, may not hold true.  So to make sure I wasn't missing anything, I did search engine checks regarding the President's previous reported behavior, using Trump's name, together with all kinds of negative attributes, such "assault", " "violence", "harming", "rape" etc.

 All of the negative attributes which are usually thought of as physical, such as "assault", "bashing" etc. searched together with Trump's name, showed links describing violent words, or angry tweets,  NOT real physical violence or harm.

The harshest description I found about the President's response or retaliation against an adversary, is that he "angrily lashed out on twitter using ALL caps!"  Most of the time, the President delivers insulting tweets, using the same measure of harshness, that they first delivered to him. 

Not knowing all of the history behind President Trumps insulting tweets, I must admit, that some of his tweets may cross the line of civility, especially before his presidency.  But seriously, tweeted words? When has a presidential tweet caused lasting, serious harm? 

Compared to Kim Jong Un, I think it's obvious who the REAL bully is. 

I'll put my trust in President Donald Trump, who is NOT a REAL bully!

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Bullying Against President Trump, Hidden in Plain Sight

Bullying Against President Trump, Hidden in Plain Sight

 (An Opinion By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador)

I am having a hard time lately reading about everyone in the news media, as well as celebrities, politicians and probably my next door neighbor (if I had the guts to ask), who seem to think it's okay to openly disrespect the President and even publicly bully his young son Barron.

The article, partially quoted and linked to full content below, seemed to aggravate me more than most. I tried to relieve that feeling of aggravation by writing a comment in the reader's comment section at the end of the article. I carefully wrote my comment and filled in the identifying info they requested, Pressed Enter, DELETE ERROR X2. Now I am TWICE as aggravated as before.

Never wanting to let go of being TWICE as aggravated as before, I decided to share BOTH the aggravating article AND my aggravated reader's comments that I couldn't send. I also clued you in, as to how this all  pertains to the adult bullying and mobbing phenomenon, which remains the same, whether it's affecting a workplace, nation or the entire world.

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Miss Texas Rips Trump at Miss America Pageant

Miss Texas, Margana Wood, did not win the Miss America pageant, but her 15 second response to a question about trump and white supremacists did give her thunderous applause and a huge new fan base.

During the Q&A portion of the event, Wood was asked about Trump’s response to white supremacist violence in Charlottesville, Virginia last month, when he said there were "very fine people on both sides. Her response was:

"I think that the white supremacist issue, it was very obvious, that it was a terrorist attack. And I think that President Donald Trump should’ve made a statement earlier addressing the fact, and in making sure all Americans feel safe in this country. That is the number one issue right now."

Wood has a history of standing up against bullies such as the white supremacists that Trump failed to denounce. As Miss Texas, she called her platform "You Belong" and spoke out against bullying and for equality and inclusion.

"It’s important for everyone to hear the phrase because they do ― Everybody Belongs" Wood told Out Smart, a Houston-based magazine for the LGBTQ community.

(Article By Jeremiah Jones)

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador Comments

I think this article is what the President is referring to when he talks about "fake news". When the President and I were growing up, Real News did not express the author's opinion about the story like the author did in this quote "the white supremacists that Trump failed to denounce," - Now that's OPINION which I do NOT agree with, and this article is presented as "News" NOT opinion. This is a DEMOCRACY in which the media has an OBLIGATION to truthfully, factually and without bias, report the REAL news.

 "A Democracy is undermined when the press and/or the news media, strays from the truth because of bias or when truth is confused with opinion.ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador"

What is MOST disturbing about this article was the choice by someone at the Miss America Pageant,  to use probably the MOST divisive question imaginable, during the Q and A portion of the event. Who would even think to ask "about Trump’s response to white supremacist violence in Charlottesville"?  This one question divided the whole nation!

Is it not obvious that someone maliciously used that question to harm Trump's Presidency? The President is being "bullied" by a REAL bully, meaning someone with diminished empathy Instead, motivated to do harm? This is what I mean by a "Real bully"..

There are many principles of the adult bullying and mobbing phenomenon which  remain the same, regardless if it affects a workplace, nation or is global.  One principle is how hidden it is. This article is a glaring example of just how HIDDEN real adult bullying and mobbing really is!

In this case the President of the United States was literally attacked by a psychopathic bully, who chose the most divisive question possible with the premeditated intention of causing harm to Trump's presidency, at a time when it was already challenged. (Not to mention that bullying someone when they are already down, is another bullying tactic.)

The attack was nationally if not globally televised.  There was also more than adequate Internet coverage describing these events correctly as they really occurred.  However, with the exception of just one article that I could find, they were all biased against the President.  

The REAL (criminal) events, taking second place to things like "the thunderous applause and huge new fan base" that the contestant gained by her anti Trump answer was reported.  Most, just piled on the HATEFULNESS of their anti Trump opinions as the BULLYING of the President continues unabated. Hidden and Unnoticed by most. 

The one pro Trump article titled "When Did Miss America Pageant Turn Into Nasty Woman Protest, described the pageant like this; 

"It was as if Elizabeth Warren and Hillary Clinton were sitting underneath the Atlantic City boardwalk, sipping Chardonnay and writing this year’s questions."

Article linked below.

when-did-miss-america-pageant-turn-into-nasty-woman-protest.


Yet, even in this pro-Trump article, there is NO OUTRAGE!

Let's REALLY watch our President's back!

By first Recognizing it, then Naming it "BULLYING AND/OR MOBBING", then expressing OUR OUTRAGE!, Whenever it is used AGAINST Our President!  Then,

Let's End Bullying and Mobbing Together!

-God Bless President Donald Trump-

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

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My name is ABC, which stands for AntiBullyingCrusador. I go by the alias “ABC” for short, or “AntiBullyingCrusador”, whenever I write about the subject of Workplace bullying and mobbing and adult bullying in general.  Writing about hate can be risky, and is the reason I use a pseudonym. I know it seems phony, but my avatar - ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador, has been a presence on the Internet since 2004, retiring in 2015, now back because of the national bullying and mobbing crisis, affecting the presidency.

I know the correct spelling is “crusader” but I spell it “crusador” to indicate that it’s a name, as opposed to a thing.   AntiBullyingCrusador The Original ABC.

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Hatefulness Without Prejudice, Workplace/Adult Bullying

Hatefulness Without Prejudice, Workplace/Adult Bullying. By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

I am in my 50s and have never been affected by prejudice as a child or as an adult where I live in the state of Connecticut.  I have not been spared from hatefulness however and have learned about one of the most painful types of hatefulness there is.  It is hatefulness without prejudice, a hatefulness for no reason at all, referred to as "bullying". Children deal with school yard bullies who steal their lunch money and push them in the mud while adults are faced with a more serious version.

I first experienced adult bullying on my job, which is referred to as "workplace bullying".  It was a job that I loved and thrived in for over 25 years, finally forced out by a "serial bully boss" after 30 years.   Adults can be bullied by just about anyone, sometimes people they least expect, like a new neighbor or a new pastor at their church. The most likely places to find workplace bullying is in education, health care and in any of the "helping professions".

By "bully", I don't mean just the arrogant and the rude, but those with a level of psychopathy, having physical or emotional mental disorders which compels them to behave in this way. Bullies are thought to feel a type of satisfaction, and enjoy causing others emotional distress.  They actually plan emotional assaults against their targets.  Many bullies are incapable of feeling empathy or suffer from feelings of inadequacy and shame brought on by harsh early childhood experiences. The best performers may be targeted for this reason.  Bullies cannot be reasoned with because there is no real reason for the abuse other than the bullies whim or need to subjugate, control or even eliminate from a group, or cause others to shun the target.

Targets of  bullying are rarely believed and are faced with denial at every turn because hatefulness for no reason, just doesn't make sense. This type of hatefulness leaves no physical scars, only the emotional distress of a target who becomes obsessed searching for the reasons why suddenly someone they trusted, would turn against them and manipulate others against them as well. Family, friends and bystanders become more skeptical by the targets emotional distress, while the reasons that targets obsessively search for, simply don't exist. 

I was brought up to be proud to be an American and was taught that our country of the equal and the free, is a place where any child can dream of, and actually become president some day.  Being a girl, I knew this was not true.  Prejudice, although never mentioned, made this dream a lie to all but white, Christian, boys.  The last two presidential elections, has finally made this dream a reality, for both girls and children of color . This is a positive sign that prejudice, a terrible type of hatefulness, is losing against the increasingly popular consensus that all people are created equal.

Can we really beat Workplace/adult bullying, a hatefulness without prejudice or reason?  It's my belief that we can.

Let's learn to Recognize it, name it, and end workplace/adult bullying together!

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

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Barron Trump Bullied! How Real Bullies Think!

Barron Trump Bullied!  How REAL Bullies Think!

By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

Of interest, is another perspective of Barron's bullying incident, published by the Business Insider, Titled, "Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"

The content in the partially quoted article below, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think, reason and talk.

Commentary Continued by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador after the article, in gold print..

Read partially quoted article below in purple print, or click on the link, Business Insider underlined below for for full content.

"Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"
Business Insider-link to original, full content  Business Insider

Barron is semi-frequently photographed walking across the White House's South Lawn with his family as they return from trips around the country. He's usually seen in a shirt from J. Crew's kid's line, and he has even been pictured with a fidget spinner and a backpack!

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid. Chelsea Clinton, who was only a few years older than Barron when her father, Bill Clinton, was president, tweeted in support of the youngest Trump
Still, it's hard to believe, considering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One. It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events


Commentary Continued by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

(Continued) Discussion in the partially quoted article above, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think and reason.

Did anyone notice while reading the article, how differently minded the author seemed?

If you didn't, don't worry. There's a little bit more to learn, about adults, who are correctly referred to as "bullies", before it all comes together.

Starting with the basics, adults who are correctly referred to as a "bully", are people with a "level of psychopathy".  These are people who lack or have a diminished ability to feel empathy for other people.  Instead, they feel a type of satisfaction over the misfortune of others.  This is what I mean by "REAL bully".  By "level of psychopathy" I'm referring to a spectrum of severity, in which psychopathy is experienced.  The worst, totally lacking caring emotions.

One of the strangest things about REAL bullies, especially the intelligent "successful psychopaths", is that normal, caring people, rarely notice when the things they say or write, (like this article), reveals a very different slant on things.

Successful psychopaths are smart enough to know that they think differently than others. Some of them view the emotion of others as a weakness and their own lack of caring feelings as an advantage.  

Others, view this difference as something horrible about themselves, as well they should. Whether it be a logical belief of Christian morality or the man made letter of the law, most stay on the right side of both, seemingly normal in every way.

The vast majority in my opinion, may be low on the psychopathy spectrum, or are deeply influenced in some other ways, and are never really thought of as "psychopathic", neither by themselves', or by others. Most overcome that impression, by a steadfastness and adherence to socially acceptable and beneficial behaviors and activities within their communities.  These are  the Moms and Dads who work full time jobs, then run P.T.A. meetings or are sports coaches or scout leaders.  Many earn the coveted impression of being pillars of society. When it is all said and done, the original depth of one's benevolence, really doesn't matter.

Unable to fully experience caring emotions and passions of their own, Real bullies carefully orchestrate their lives, some in great detail. They mimic the normal emotions of others and portray an image of their choosing.

Things like their clothes are thought of as being so much more than just something to wear. They view their clothes, makeup, accessories and most of their belongings, as props in a play. All of these things are needed, but are not used in ways that most people expect. Most everything instead is used to support the lie of their artificial persona.

Normally minded people regard their clothes, appearance and material possessions in a more practical way. Having a real persona, born of genuine affections and moral convictions, things like clothes and appearance, are put in their proper perspective.

Most of us, like the President and his family, think of their clothes,.. well,... as their clothes. Adults in our society do better, when they go along with various mores about level of formality and to a lesser degree, morality. Children, whether presidential or not, do better in this society, and therefore are driven to wear, what every other kid wears.

Now back to the article;


The article starts with a description of Barron's casual attire. The author then starts the next paragraph with a statement;

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid.

The article continues suggesting that by Chelsea Clinton's support of Barron, that she too dressed as a kid being a kid, when her father was president. The author's statement reveals that the author, isn't one of the "most" who believe it. The author, being so differently minded restates their disbelief,  "Still, it's hard to believe" unable to grasp that Chelsea Clinton or anyone for that matter, dresses casually just because they want to, or they are just kids, being kids.

Then, like Real bullies everywhere, they flipped everything around in the most ridiculous way! Instead of believing the obvious, that Barron is a normal, everyday kid who dresses like one, this is what is thought instead-

Considering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One.  It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

UNBELIEVABLE! - And MOST people didn't think twice!

The author then gives a great example of the complicated way that Real bullies think about things like their clothes below-

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The article is then finished off, by projecting this whole messy clothes thing on the ,,,,,

 ...Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events.  

Nothing says it like their own words, if we just take a moment and listen, or read it twice! 


God Bless Targets of Workplace and Adult Bullying and Mobbing, Where Ever They Are! 

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Bullying Against Barron Trump, Clothes-Shaming

Bullying Against Barron Trump, Clothes-Shaming.                  By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

Read the article below, titled "Melania Makes Heartbreaking Statement About Barron Trump Getting Bullied" in purple print, published by World News Politics on 8-23-17.

Partial content is quoted in purple print below. OR Click on "World News Politics" - Underlined, below - for link to full content.

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-Melania Makes Heartbreaking Statement About Barron Trump Getting Bullied-
By; World News Politics -link to original full content and photographs. Partially quoted below.

A recent post from the conservative blog The Daily Caller called out Barron for what the author said was his too-casual style.

Writer Ford Springer had wrote that Barron returning to the White House from New Jersey Sunday with the First Lady and the President. He said that Barron appeared to be boarding Air Force One to take a trip to the movies, not the White.

Springer said that “the youngest Trump doesn’t have any responsibilities as the president’s son, but the least he could do is dress the part when he steps out in public”.

Melania Trump finally has had enough. Enough of the bullying her 11-year-old child Barron faces on a daily basis from just about everyone.

So it is a heartbreaking day in America when the First Lady has to come out and thank none other than Chelsea Clinton for coming to defend Barron from attacks, which actually came from a very conservative news outlet.

And the loudest voice to stand up for Barron was not a conservative but Chelsea Clinton.
To which Melania responded with a heartbreaking message thanking Chelsea and asking all Americans to stop bullying kids, especially her son Barron. “Thank you @ChelseaClinton – so important to support all of our children in being themselves! #StopChildhoodBullying, the first lady tweeted.

TWITTER Bullying Against Barron Trump Disgraceful!

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Clothes-shaming is a tactic that REAL bullies are known to both use and share. But clothes-shaming is not exclusively used by just REAL bullies. It is something that children, teenagers and normal, caring adults also use quite often.

The way to tell the difference is by their motive. i.e.; Adults correctly referred to as "bullies", have a level of psychopathy. They lack or have a diminished ability to experience caring, empathetic feelings for others. Being so very differently motivated, Real bullies think of things like their clothes, as being so much more than just something to wear. Real (psychopathic) Bullies, who use clothes-shaming as a bullying tactic, will bring it to a much nastier level and in ways that most people can't even imagine.

On the other hand, people who are motivated by normal caring feelings, will use angry behaviors or tactics that leave little, if any, consequence or lasting harm. Have you ever seen teenage siblings quarreling and teasing each other over the appearance and ownership of their clothes? It's quite common and normal.

In Barron's case, an adult journalist "calls out" an 11 year old child's clothes, by publishing a critical article and photographs. This is not something that can be easily dismissed as something innocent. When that child is the son of The President of The United States, all doubt is removed. And the harmful possibilities are endless!

Let's Learn to Recognize it, Name it, and End Workplace or Adult Bullying and Mobbing,
Where Ever It May Be, or Form it Should Take, Together!

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