Showing posts with label psychopaths REAL bully. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychopaths REAL bully. Show all posts

Thursday, October 12, 2017

Pure Evil, Unrecognized and Hidden in Plain Sight

"Pure Evil" Unrecognized and Hidden in Plain Sight.  By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador
 Stephen Paddock's Dad-Psychopathic Criminal


I have been feeling  more and more concerned with each passing day since the unprecedented mass shooting in Las Vegas.  Starting with the very first breaking news reports of that tragic event. it seems obvious to me that Stephen Paddock was a "successful psychopath".  Yet, more than a week later, few have even suggested that possibility, and even fewer (if any) have suggested that possibility, as the sole cause (not motive).

 It is a  well known fact to doctors and other "experts" in the field of psychology, that bottom of the barrel spectrum psychopathic minds, have no real or valid motives at all for their crimes, except for their own personal satisfaction, even  enjoyment over the pain and suffering of other people, that they often cause.
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What's concerning is that commentary by "officials", innocent bystanders and the general public, as reported by the media, show how little people know about "psychopathy".  Our collective understanding as a Nation, seems to even worsen with the passage of time and memories of previous psychopathic atrocities fade. 

Misconceptions about psychopathy accentuated by the Stephen Paddock investigation seemed fueled by an abundance of fresh examples, dismissing the possibility of psychopathy as a cause, but when looked at from a deeper perspective, actually prove it.  This superficial perspective continues unabated while the list of misconceptions grows only longer each day.

 It has been one of my long standing opinions, that the activities of "psychopaths" or even worse, the very intelligent "successful psychopaths", pose the largest hidden threat that people are both exposed to, but know little or nothing about.  Dispite holding and publishing this opinion for over a decade, the puplic understanding of the issues that psychopathy pose, only worsens, my reach far to small.

The Nation has witnessed "pure evil" and the events and speculation that continues to follow.  Many thousands of people witnessed it up close being at the center of the violence in the crowd targeted by Stephen Paddock.

Paddock, perched in a hotel room 32 stories above, attacked the crowd below using  gunfire, reminiscent of "tower covert hunting blinds".  ("Hunting" a sport Paddock "enjoyed" and pointed out as an example, as to why he couldn't be psychopathic.)

The crowds' screaming in a panicked frenzy to get away, people scrambling in every direction, leaving behind all their belongings, including cell phones, car keys and wallets.  Some, even leaving behind loved ones separated by the rushing crowds or pursuing their own way out, while hundreds lay wounded or dead.  Horrific! That is, to the normally minded.

Stephen Paddock and other intelligent successful psychopathic minds, seem very normal on the surface, but think very differently, literally enjoying and experiencing a type of satisfaction over the pain and suffering of other people that they often cause.  I know I repeated this, but I also know how hard it is to believe!  

People in that crowd who walked away from that experience with their lives, will likely never walk away from the traumatic memories, intrusive thoughts and flash backs that are now a part of what defines them.

While the psychopathic minds, go unrecognized and hidden in plain sight.

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"Stephen Paddock Successful Psychopath Reason Enough to Kill"
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Thursday, September 14, 2017

Barron Trump Bullied! How Real Bullies Think!

Barron Trump Bullied!  How REAL Bullies Think!

By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador


Of interest, is another perspective of Barron's bullying incident, published by the Business Insider, Titled, "Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"

The content in the partially quoted article below, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think, reason and talk.

Commentary Continued by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador after the article, in gold print..

Read partially quoted article below in purple print, or click on the link, Business Insider underlined below for for full content.

"Barron Trump Being Slammed For His Casual Wardrobe - But it's a Brilliant Political" Move"
Business Insider-link to original, full content  Business Insider

Barron is semi-frequently photographed walking across the White House's South Lawn with his family as they return from trips around the country. He's usually seen in a shirt from J. Crew's kid's line, and he has even been pictured with a fidget spinner and a backpack!

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid. Chelsea Clinton, who was only a few years older than Barron when her father, Bill Clinton, was president, tweeted in support of the youngest Trump
Still, it's hard to believe, considering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One. It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events


Commentary Continued by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

(Continued) Discussion in the partially quoted article above, is interesting in that it is an example of the way REAL bullies think and reason.

Did anyone notice while reading the article, how differently minded the author seemed?

If you didn't, don't worry. There's a little bit more to learn, about adults, who are correctly referred to as "bullies", before it all comes together.

Starting with the basics, adults who are correctly referred to as a "bully", are people with a "level of psychopathy".  These are people who lack or have a diminished ability to feel empathy for other people.  Instead, they feel a type of satisfaction over the misfortune of others.  This is what I mean by "REAL bully".  By "level of psychopathy" I'm referring to a spectrum of severity, in which psychopathy is experienced.  The worst, totally lacking caring emotions.

One of the strangest things about REAL bullies, especially the intelligent "successful psychopaths", is that normal, caring people, rarely notice when the things they say or write, (like this article), reveals a very different slant on things.

Successful psychopaths are smart enough to know that they think differently than others. Some of them view the emotion of others as a weakness and their own lack of caring feelings as an advantage.  

Others
, view this difference as something horrible about themselves, as well they should. Whether it be a logical belief of Christian morality or the man made letter of the law, most stay on the right side of both, seemingly normal in every way.

The vast majority in my opinion, may be low on the psychopathy spectrum, or are deeply influenced in some other ways, and are never really thought of as "psychopathic", neither by themselves', or by others. Most overcome that impression, by a steadfastness and adherence to socially acceptable and beneficial behaviors and activities within their communities.  These are  the Moms and Dads who work full time jobs, then run P.T.A. meetings or are sports coaches or scout leaders.  Many earn the coveted impression of being pillars of society. When it is all said and done, the original depth of one's benevolence, really doesn't matter.

Unable to fully experience caring emotions and passions of their own, Real bullies carefully orchestrate their lives, some in great detail. They mimic the normal emotions of others and portray an image of their choosing.

Things like their clothes are thought of as being so much more than just something to wear. They view their clothes, makeup, accessories and most of their belongings, as props in a play. All of these things are needed, but are not used in ways that most people expect. Most everything instead is used to support the lie of their artificial persona.

Normally minded people regard their clothes, appearance and material possessions in a more practical way. Having a real persona, born of genuine affections and moral convictions, things like clothes and appearance, are put in their proper perspective.

Most of us, like the President and his family, think of their clothes,.. well,... as their clothes. Adults in our society do better, when they go along with various mores about level of formality and to a lesser degree, morality. Children, whether presidential or not, do better in this society, and therefore are driven to wear, what every other kid wears.

Now back to the article;


The article starts with a description of Barron's casual attire. The author then starts the next paragraph with a statement;

Most would read this behavior as a kid being a kid.

The article continues suggesting that by Chelsea Clinton's support of Barron, that she too dressed as a kid being a kid, when her father was president. The author's statement reveals that the author, isn't one of the "most" who believe it. The author, being so differently minded restates their disbelief,  "Still, it's hard to believe" unable to grasp that Chelsea Clinton or anyone for that matter, dresses casually just because they want to, or they are just kids, being kids.

Then, like Real bullies everywhere, they flipped everything around in the most ridiculous way! Instead of believing the obvious, that Barron is a normal, everyday kid who dresses like one, this is what is thought instead-

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onsidering how orchestrated politics in the US is today, that no thought would go into the outfits Barron wears when he steps off Marine One.  It's more likely his clothes are picked to make him seem like a normal, everyday kid with accessible clothing, and make him less of a focus of op-eds such as the one from The Daily Caller.

UNBELIEVABLE! - And MOST people didn't think twice!

The author then gives a great example of the complicated way that Real bullies think about things like their clothes below-

Using clothes to drive a narrative isn't a new political tactic, but it may be a sign that the Trumps are getting more accustomed to being under such a bright national spotlight under which nearly all their moves are scrutinized. Fairly or not, the clothing items that political figures wear are often dissected and evaluated for meaning.

The article is then finished off, by projecting this whole messy clothes thing on the ,,,,,

 ...Obamas, especially Michelle, often employed this tactic and received positive press for wearing a wide variety of affordable clothing, including pieces from Target and J. Crew. Michelle also wore Oscar de la Renta, Gucci, and many lesser-known designers to more-formal events.  

Nothing says it like their own words, if we just take a moment and listen, or read it twice! 


God Bless Targets of Workplace and Adult Bullying and Mobbing, Where Ever They Are! 

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

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Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Bullying Against Barron Trump, Clothes-Shaming

Bullying Against Barron Trump, Clothes-Shaming.                  By ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador


Read the article below, titled "Melania Makes Heartbreaking Statement About Barron Trump Getting Bullied" in purple print, published by World News Politics on 8-23-17.

Partial content is quoted in purple print below. OR Click on "World News Politics" - Underlined, below - for link to full content.

Commentary by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador, follows in gold print after the article.

-Melania Makes Heartbreaking Statement About Barron Trump Getting Bullied-
By; World News Politics -link to original full content and photographs. Partially quoted below.

A recent post from the conservative blog The Daily Caller called out Barron for what the author said was his too-casual style.

Writer Ford Springer had wrote that Barron returning to the White House from New Jersey Sunday with the First Lady and the President. He said that Barron appeared to be boarding Air Force One to take a trip to the movies, not the White.

Springer said that “the youngest Trump doesn’t have any responsibilities as the president’s son, but the least he could do is dress the part when he steps out in public”.

Melania Trump finally has had enough. Enough of the bullying her 11-year-old child Barron faces on a daily basis from just about everyone.


So it is a heartbreaking day in America when the First Lady has to come out and thank none other than Chelsea Clinton for coming to defend Barron from attacks, which actually came from a very conservative news outlet.


And the loudest voice to stand up for Barron was not a conservative but Chelsea Clinton.
To which Melania responded with a heartbreaking message thanking Chelsea and asking all Americans to stop bullying kids, especially her son Barron. “Thank you @ChelseaClinton – so important to support all of our children in being themselves! #StopChildhoodBullying, the first lady tweeted.


TWITTER Bullying Against Barron Trump Disgraceful!

Commentary Continued by ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

Clothes-shaming is a tactic that REAL bullies are known to both use and share. But clothes-shaming is not exclusively used by just REAL bullies. It is something that children, teenagers and normal, caring adults also use quite often.

The way to tell the difference is by their motive. i.e.; Adults correctly referred to as "bullies", have a level of psychopathy. They lack or have a diminished ability to experience caring, empathetic feelings for others. Being so very differently motivated, Real bullies think of things like their clothes, as being so much more than just something to wear. Real (psychopathic) Bullies, who use clothes-shaming as a bullying tactic, will bring it to a much nastier level and in ways that most people can't even imagine.

On the other hand, people who are motivated by normal caring feelings, will use angry behaviors or tactics that leave little, if any, consequence or lasting harm. Have you ever seen teenage siblings quarreling and teasing each other over the appearance and ownership of their clothes? It's quite common and normal.

In Barron's case, an adult journalist "calls out" an 11 year old child's clothes, by publishing a critical article and photographs. This is not something that can be easily dismissed as something innocent. When that child is the son of The President of The United States, all doubt is removed. And the harmful possibilities are endless!

Let's Learn to Recognize it, Name it, and End Workplace or Adult Bullying and Mobbing,
Where Ever It May Be, or Form it Should Take, Together!

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Tuesday, August 29, 2017

The Difference Between President Trump and REAL Bullies

The Difference Between President Trump and REAL Bullies By ABC

It is true that almost half the nation think the President is a bully.  Many people with this impression give as examples the President's angry tweets or comments towards people who he believes first slighted or criticized him unfairly in some way.  The President  seemingly having no guile at times, just  blurts out whatever is on his mind.
 
So what's the difference between a REAL bully and people like the President who are incorrectly referred to as a bully?


The difference is, what motivates the behavior that is being referred to as bullying.  People correctly referred to as a bully, are psychopaths lacking in feeling for others and motivated by a single factor. the need to do harm.  Their tactics cause great harm.


People incorrectly referred to as a bully like the President, have normal caring  feelings like most of us.  Their motives for angry tweets and comments, like the President, are not to do serious lasting harm like REAL  bullies.  Instead,  the President and others incorrectly called bullies are motivated in ways that are similar to children called bullies.  Their motives are based on normal caring feelings, that can, and often do get hurt unfairly by REAL bullies!.


Lets Learn to recognize, name, and end workplace and adult bullying and mobbing together!

ABC-AntiBullyingCrusador

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